Writing

What keeps coming up.

Most of my writing comes from the work itself.

A pattern shows up in three couples in the same week. A question keeps showing up in the assessment data. A phrase from a client gets stuck in my head until I have something useful to say back.

The blog is where I work some of that out in public.

Some posts are about marriage, money, roles, resentment, and the fights that are not really about the thing people are fighting about. Some are about the work I am doing with Jake. Some are about what I am reading, what I used to believe, or where my thinking has changed.

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“The Week That Changed Everything” Part 3 of 3 The week was supposed to be an experiment. A simple role

“The Guilt of Going” Part 2 of 3 Every morning, I kiss everyone goodbye and walk out the door to

“I Thought They Had It Easier” Part 1 of 3 I used to believe that the people who didn’t go

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